Tuesday 20 August 2013

HAHA Project: Jolly Times at James House


On a day as crisp and wonderful as a perfectly ripe Golden Delicious, I had the opportunity to spread some polkadotty love at the James House Child and Youth Care Centre. As a part of my recently launched and tremendously exciting HAHA Project, I’m endeavouring to visit various charities so as to raise awareness of the incredible work that they do, whilst also generally amusing/scaring everyone with my somewhat dotty sense of style.





James House, affectionately termed 'The Home That Love Built', was established in 1986 in Hout Bay, an intriguing and beautiful seaside village situated in a quiet corner of the Cape peninsula. Hout Bay is a unique microcosm of the problems and opportunities that South Africa faces as a country, given the glaringly disparate states of the living conditions that its residents either enjoy or endure.

A geographically compact place, Hout Bay is encircled by mountains except where it greets the sea, and within this confined space, prosperity and hardship dance an uneasy dance. Gleaming mansions, iridescent with wealth and material abundance, stand quite literally alongside crudely constructed informal structures that seem to sag under the weight of poverty and desperation, a paradox that inevitably leads to conflict and disharmony.

The bay of beauty

Thankfully, however, organisations such as James House exist to encourage a bridging of this divide, by caring for some of the most vulnerable members of this community, namely its abandoned, abused and neglected children. Named after the first child who benefited from its care, James House has gradually evolved from primarily serving as a place of safety for these destitute children, to developing various programmes that seek to address the broad range of challenges that face modern Hout Bay, including the devastating impact that HIV/AIDS has had on the village’s ever-growing informal settlement, Imizamo Yethu.




I was fortunate enough to speak to the lovely Pamela, who is instrumental in James Houses’ Isibindi programme, about the nature of the work that she is involved in. Isibindi is primarily focused upon protecting the rights of children in the Imizamo Yethu community, particularly those who have become tasked with being solely responsible for looking after their families due to the death of their parents. These so-called ‘Child Headed Households’ are a debilitating side-effect of the scourge that is HIV/AIDS, with an approximate 122 000 children in South Africa being said to have lived in such households in 2006 (http://oldsanews.gcis.gov.za/dsd.htm is an informative article on this problem).

Pamela explained to me that Isibindi is responsible for the care of thirteen such families in Imizamo Yethu, and provides crucial help to these young ‘surrogate parents’ by educating them as to their rights in respect of social grants, ensuring that there is adequate food for the family and following up on their progress at school. Perhaps most importantly, Pamela and her Isibindi team provide much-needed kindness and attention to the plight of these vulnerable young people who were flung into an abyss of heartache, poverty and desperation when they lost everything that was dear to them.



In a place where abundance and lack chafe awkwardly against one another, James House is a symbol of hope and love offered to children who had no say in where they were born. The jarring inequality that underscores Hout Bay’s identity is by no means unique to this small South African town. On the contrary, in every corner of this planet an unavoidable fact exists: some individuals will be lucky enough to enter a world of comfort and opportunity from the day of their birth, whilst the lives of others will predominantly constitute a grim struggle for basic survival, from their first day to their last.

Whilst this may seem to be a crushingly unfair inevitability, I believe that we retain the power to choose how to deal with this truth. We may elect to meet it with guilt, despair, despondence, apathy or an unconcerned shrug of our shoulders. Alternatively, we are free to interpret the imbalance that characterises our world as an opportunity for radical change and growth. We can challenge this status quo with empathy, resourcefulness, care and action - James House is just one example that bears testimony to the lives that are altered and the dreams that are re-awakened when the latter course is taken.

Here are a few very wonderful videos from my visit to James House. The first one is a general introduction (I unveil my theory that the world's troubles is the same as a giant muffin - a MUST WATCH revelation), the second video is of my  interview with the Very Lovely Pamela (there are some unscripted but very cute interruptions to proceedings) and the third is the brief talk I did for the children. 









A huge thank you to the very lovely cameraman (known only as 'Mr. Tom') for his patience, expertise and steady camera-hand. He endured all the madness that is inevitably present at an Ani Mallover gathering and somehow managed to still be smiling/alive/smiling-and-alive at the end of it all! A legend! A true legend he is!

If you would like to get involved with James House or find out more about ‘The Home that Love Built’, their contact details are as follows:

admin@jameshouse.org.za
+27 21 790 5616


(All photos that include adorable kiddies were sourced from the James House facebook page and are not my own. Due to privacy concerns for the children, James House does not encourage photos of their little ones being taken and publicly distributed. At least, that's what I was told. Maybe they were like "Whoaaaah she's a crazy panda lady - no photos for her!", I'll never know....)

xxxx Lots of Love and HAHAING to you, Ani

Friday 2 August 2013

What the HAHA is Ani on about?


HAHA is a universally recognised symbol of laughter. We’ve all enjoyed the benefits of a good, spontaneous HAHA, as our eyes crinkle at the corners, our mouths stretch into gleeful smiles and our ribs jerk in an uncontrollable fit of mirth. Yes, it is unquestionable – HAHA is good for you!


If you look anything like the pictures above - high five! You, my friend,  are a HAHA natural!

Admit it – you love a good HAHA. Cast your mind back. When was your last, good, hearty HAHA? Was it this morning, when you looked outside your window and happened to see the yellow-black-blur of motion that is a giant banana being chased by a gorilla (Yes - that has happened http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=anmJbCyAh04)?

Perhaps you could't muffle a HAHA when your great-uncle shared one of his favourite, cringe-inducing jokes at the last family gathering you attended (What goes HAHA bonk? A man laughing his head off!)?

Ladies (perhaps the odd gentleman too), do you HAHA in mild agony when you recall THAT time when a rogue gust of wind caused you to experience a wardrobe malfunction a-la-Marilyn Monroe, resulting in your lacy underwear being revealed to a larger audience than you had originally planned? It seems safe to conclude that, irrespective of its source or cause - a HAHA moment, is a happy moment. 

This is why I have chosen ‘HAHA’ as the name for the very lovely new project I’m launching. HAHA is a cunning acronym for ‘Help Another Human or Animal’ – genius, I know. 


HAHA - Help Another Human or Animal! GENIUS, no? Applause welcome!
The concept is simple – laughter, being the best medicine, is an effortless way of helping others, so when next you see a human/animal in need, be a Dr. Do-Good and administer a large dose of tickles/spontaneous tap-dancing and/or knock-knock jokes immediately. If you are able to accomplish all three at once, you will certainly have earned your black belt in HAHA.

It is my sincere belief that we all get too disheartened and too despondent about the enormity of the challenges facing our world, and consequently fail to recognise the opportunities that arise every day to make a difference in the lives of the people we come into contact with. This difference may not be an earth-shattering, ground-trembling, foundation-shaking alteration in the course of someone’s life, but if it adds one more smile to one person’s day, it is still a positive contribution. I completely agree with that most incredible of ladies, Mother Theresa, when she said, “Never worry about numbers. Help one person at a time and always start with the person nearest you”. Phrased slightly differently by a wise warthog – “Hakuna Matata and HAHA.” I'm sure he said that. 



We may not singlehandedly be able to eradicate world poverty, starvation, disease, illiteracy, cruelty or suffering, but we can pick a humble little flower for someone we care about and give it to them as a surprise at the end of a long day. We can smile at the waitress who serves us our breakfast and we can take the time to thank the lady who cleans the public bathroom we use. We can choose to slow down in the never-ceasing whir we call daily life to greet the elderly gentleman walking past us in the street, stooped and wise and longing for some acknowledgement that he is still alive, that he is still valued.

When in doubt, be like this sloth. This sloth is the business.
I will be giving you ideas of somewhat bizarre but splendid ways in which you can be a HAHA ambassador, ranging from making money grow on trees (YES you CAN!), leaving love notes on strangers’ car windscreens (not creepy love notes, LOVELY love notes to inspire, motivate and enthuse), as well as teaching you the secret to making magical smiling chocolates that you can distribute like a modern-day Willy Wonka of wonderment (Oompa Loompas are not essential for the completion of this task, but if you have some handy, that’s fantastic and please let me know where I can recruit a few).

I will also be visiting as many charities and NGO’s as I can to give you an insight into the amazing work being done by people who take HAHA to the next level and do so on a permanent basis. These persons radiate the spirit of HAHA with such dazzling intensity that their halos practically light up the sky. They are the glowworms of our world, shining love out of their illuminated bottoms (metaphorically speaking) to remind us of the potential in each of us to bring light to even the darkest of our problems. I will be focused predominantly on organisations that care for children or promote literacy, as well as conservation iniatives that aim to lend a helping paw to our fuzzier brethren.

My aim in visiting these charities and writing about their work is simply to remind you that although humanity is faced with great challenges, there is also a great commitment to overcoming them. When we are reminded of the good that people are doing, we inevitably feel empowered to make a HAHA contribution of our own, no matter how small. All of our little chuckles can join to form a great roar of laughter that ripples across the world. 

Change the world, one chuckle at a time.

What I hope to convey to you is that HAHA should essentially be perceived as a personal matter – what makes you HAHA, and how do you enjoy spreading the HAHA magic? We cannot all work for a charity, we cannot all dedicate our lives solely to helping other humans or animals – yet this does not preclude us from being able to add a dash of delightfulness to the world we are immediately surrounded by. 

This is what HAHA sets out to do. Simply, and cheerfully, to make the lives of other humans (and animals) just that LITTLE bit better. 

xxxx Ani


Here is a very HAHA video where I explain things a little further, hopefully it will show you the wildly wonderful world that awaits you once you make HAHA a part of your daily life! Let me tell you a secret. Spreading a HAHA a day will make you shine like a sun ray! Do it and see for yourself!